Sunday, September 11, 2011

Mixed Nuts

I wasn't sure what was up with slave nuts, lately he hadn't been doing as many CBT sessions with me. So when I confronted him about it, he sheepishly revealed the dreaded truth: he had started to date someone. This is often the kiss of death as in the end of a beautiful Dom\sub relationship to use two overused cliches. Slaves tend to evaporate when they start to date.

I've found that if a slave is getting vanilla sex with someone NEW, their desire for kinky sex or kinky encounters wanes, that is, until the newness wears off. So, you say, I shouldn't let him date? He's a session slave, not a personal slave. Outside of my kicking his balls, smacking his balls plus using footwear and apparatus to inflict CBT, I didn't own this slave. He's a masochist, not a submissive, per se. He submits to pain. So I wasn't surprised that he started to date someone. He probably needs sex. But when the plain old vanilla sex wears off, I know he'll be back for more flip-flop and stiletto CBT. Till then, there's always fatfuck...