Blocked!

"Tell me how much money I should add to my account. I don't want to spend a lot."

After careful review of his past account spending, I find that he had done only a one minute call a year ago. And has clicked on numerous buttons, like all of my pay to views. Without buying a single one. I'm sure he cost me more in featured clicks than what I netted from his one minute wonder call. So, I blocked him!

Scuba, Scuba Do

It's about time that I have a new real time slave to write about, since slave Avocado turned brown and rotted and claimed he went back to fucking all these chicks he was fucking and didn't need to be a slave anymore, yeah right. Keep paying those hookers at the airport LaQuinta who you find on the Miami Backpage.com ads to fuck your little dick, you loser! So, my new slave will be known as Scuba Do (he likes to scuba dive) and he has even proposed muff diving or pussy snorkeling since he believes his Mistress deserves ultimate pleasure. Of course I do! But, I do not let slaves near my pussy until I feel we have a more intimate Dom \ sub relationship.

I met Scuba Do from a Sugar Daddy website where I make it plainly clear I am only looking for generous, but submissive Sugar Daddies. Some play like they are submissive or play like they are brand spankin' new to being submissive and some fake submissive to try to get close to me so they can make a money pitch to fuck me, but that's NOT going to happen. I'm not a Sugar Baby in the traditional sense and definitely not an escort or hooker. Should I blame a guy for trying to fuck me? No. But I hate when a fake submissive wastes my time. Which is why I make all of them pay to meet me. At least $100, but usually $200 or even more, especially if I pick up the fake slave vibe.

So far, Scuba Do has paid in the thousands for the privilege of serving me since mid May, running errands for me, taking me to dinner at all the trendy places that I pick out. I have plans to take this relationship further. When Scuba Do has been a good slave, he gets to jerk off in front of me. Earlier tonight, I even let him see my pussy, yes, see what he couldn't have and then stroke and pay.

You can stroke and pay for me, too, on Niteflirt, but you won't get to see my pussy, because you don't deserve to!

Definately Dominate!!!

Half of my biggest pet peeve turns out to be the most misspelled word in the English language according to this article.

I wouldn't have guessed some of the other words on the list as being in the top 10. And the theorists are blaming texting / text messaging, but I don't think that misspelling 'definitely' as 'definately' has anything to do with texting. I use 'def' as a response to a text, such as:

Nicole: u coming 2movies w us 2nite?

Me: Def!

Who has time to type out definately or definitely while texting....

Definately Dominate!*

an interesting missive from one of my devotees....

Obviously, you understand these matters far more clearly than I, given your vantage point. Some of what you say is apparent to me, of course. That most "submissive" men are so in relation only to an ongoing masturbatory fantasy is clear, and that the submissiveness is ephemeral and vanishes with the orgasm is shown by the number who bounce from woman to woman on NF ostensibly looking for that woman who is the paradigm of the "definately dominate"* Mistress, "submitting" to each but submitting to none. (I share your grammatical pain while reading listings).

It does come as a surprise to me that you find so few authentically submissive men in real time, those addressing a long standing need rather than a fantasy. In fact, it makes me feel a little lonesome. Easier to deal with the thing if one doesn't feel so unusual, I guess.

I can well imagine that NF is good to you. A gold coin in a box full of other gold coins isn't especially noticeable, but if the box is full of pennies and lead slugs, it is stands out unmistakably. Your intelligence and sophistication stand out in pretty high relief in that venue. Thanks again for the gift of your time and attention. I'm envious of subs in Miami ;->

backstory: my devotee found a listing on Niteflirt where the Mistress stated she was "definately dominate"....as many of you know I have a major pet peeve about the usage of dominant vs. dominate!

Another Pet Peeve



When the trailer for the movie is better than the movie.... How many times have you seen a really exciting trailer, but then when you saw the actual movie, epic disappointment! Duped by the trailer! What else can you do when you know you've been duped, but hope there is some gratuitous hot sex or an adrenaline junkie car chase or some explosions to make it worth your 10 bucks.

My New Pet Peeve


As most of you know I have a pet peeve about people misusing the word 'dominate' vs. 'dominant'. Example: I am looking for a 'dominate' bitch to control me.... Well. I have a new pet peeve. Betaboys who use the word cuckhold or cockhold vs. cuckold. I can appreciate that they want to serve as a cuck, that they recognize their place in this world. But they need to learn the correct term! C-u-c-k-o-l-d! The history of the term and concept is based on Cuckoo Bird betas raising the young of the Alphas while the Females continued to mate with the Alphas. Cuckoldry exists in nature, in many species, including ours. Get used to it!